A child is born in your heart

Thursday, January 7, 2010

Thanks Hopeful...you know I am an Addict

My Fellow blogger posted this on her blog....and the addict that I am I had to complete it....grrrrrr...thanks Mom-in-waiting!!!!



1. What did you do this year that you’d never done before? Married my B for love..and only love

2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year? I was clever this year...i made a resolutions with a "get out of Jail" free clause...so no guilt yet. Yupp, I will keep making goals until the day I die

3. Did anyone close to you give birth? My cousin Selma....

4. Did anyone close to you die? No humans..but two kitty babies...

5. What countries did you visit?Too poor to go overseas

6. What would you like to have in 2010 that you lacked in 2009? Alot more loving to give to my B.....he has been so supportive thru my emotional trantrums

7. What dates from 2009 will remain etched upon your memory, and why? Thats easy...9th Feb 2009...the best day of my life...My B made me his wife

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year? I do not have one achievement that sticks out....I suppose it was just putting one foot in front of another, getting thru all the trials this year has brought...surviving whilst keeping my sanity

9. What was your biggest failure? Not giving enough attention to those that I love....

10. Did you suffer illness or injury? Not illness but I did have two surgeries and a painful HSG

11. What was the best thing you bought? We bought my B a new Double Cab...it is his pride and joy. I now call my B a "Bakkie Bully"

12. Whose behaviour merited celebration? Sharon has a fairy tale story which was inspiring...but I have to go with my sister C. She has really got in touch with her religious side. She has kept her family together through some tough times. She has also learned to relax a litte more this year.

13. Whose behaviour made you appalled and depressed? Hmmm..I'd rather not say. But there are some "not so nice" people in this world who forget that your must treat people like you would like to be treated.

14. Where did most of your money go? home renovations...we brough the crappiest house in a decent area....so it needs alot of work

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about? GETTING MARRIED

16. What song will always remind you of 2009? Funhouse by Pink. My B and I sing it at the top of our voices...each taking turns to sing a line

17. Compared to this time last year, are you:
 a) happier or sadder? 
b) thinner or fatter? 
c) richer or poorer? a) Happier..in fat the happiest I have ever been in my life....b) Fatter...the fatest I have ever been.......c) Still poor..cannot get poorer

18. What do you wish you’d done more of? Creative goodies, "Me" Time and getting in touch with my Spiritual and mental wellbeing

19. What do you wish you’d done less of? "Loffing"

20. How did you spend Christmas? With mom and B

21. Did you fall in love in 2009? I learnt to love in a deeper sense with my B...our love really deepened with the infertility problems we faced

22. What was your favourite TV program? Idols

23. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year? Yupp...but not going into it

24. What was the best book you read? 5 Languages of Love; It's me, Anna

25. What was your greatest musical discovery? Nothing this year...but I have always been a Jonathan butler baby...soul music

26. What did you want and get? A husband of my dreans

27. What did you want and not get? Win the Lotto...and a shot at IVF

29. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you? I was 37....it was my B's birthday as well...so we spent the entire day wishing each other " Happy Birthday"

30. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying? If I had been given a chance to try an IVF process....my body has been a big disappointment to me this year

31. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2009? Oh hell.....all my life I have kept up with fashion....but this year has been a disaster. I have put on so much weight and I REFUSE to spend alot of money on "fat" clothes. I plan to be back in my usual clothes shortly. So this has resulted in me buying "tent" dresses and jeans to get me through my "fat" stage

32. What kept you sane? My B

33. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?Hmmmm...I have always been a Vin Diesel girl....but he is like "so last season". I think the one celebrity that I have noticed this year (but not fancied in that sense) was Susan Boyle. I love the fact that everyone judged her and then she shut them up when she opened her mouth. Bought her CD for my Mom....very relaxing

34. What political issue stirred you the most?. I try not get involved in politics....I have too many problems of my own


35. Who did you miss? I miss two special ladies..My BFF, in London. She has had a tough year and I would love her to come home so that I can knock some sense into her..and to protect her from arsholes. Then, I miss my sister D...she lives in New Zealand. She is my big sister.

36. Who was the best new person you met? I have met the most wonderful people this year....but my money is always on my B...every year he will be the best new person I have met. Everyday we learn more about each other. He has changed my life in so many ways that I do not have the words to say "Thank you"

37. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2009. Good things happen to good people

38. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year..Now don't laugh..but my song for 2009 was "The Climb" by Hannah montana


I can almost see it
That dream I am dreaming
But there's a voice inside my head saying"You'll never reach it"
Every step I'm taking

Every move I make feels
Lost with no direction
My faith is shaking
But I gotta keep trying
Gotta keep my head held high


There's always gonna be another mountain
I'm always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be a uphill battle
Sometimes I'm gonna have to lose
Ain't about how fast I get there
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side
It's the climb

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